If you are going through the same thing and if you are unable to figure out whether your partner still loves you or not, mentioned below are nine telltale signs that can help you know whether your partner is interested in you as he was in those early and rosy days of your relationship, or not. Check them out.
1. You Both Have Nothing New To Talk About.
2. Your Partner’s Mind Is Always Somewhere Else.
Even while being with you or talking to you, if your partner always has one or the other thing going on in his/her mind, it’s an obvious sign that he/she is not interested in talking to you.
3. You Are No Longer A Part Of His/Her Plans.
If your partner has stopped hanging out with you or whenever he/she makes a plan for anything, you are not a part of that plan, it is a clear indication that your partner does not like your company. Either your partner is bored of you or feels embarrassed to take you out with his/her friends and colleagues. If this is the case with your relationship, I suggest you talk to your partner asap.
4. He/She Always Blames You For Everything.
5. He/She Doesn’t Show His/Her Love For You As Earlier.
The spark that used to be there in your relationship earlier is no longer present between you guys. Rather than giving you attention, if your partner is always on a mission to impress others, consider it as an indication that he/she is no longer in love with you.
6. He/She Is Disrespectful Towards You.
What is the use of being in a relationship where you only have bad memories? If your partner doesn’t give you the respect you deserve, it’s best to leave and move out of such a relationship.
7. Your Partner Doesn’t Bother Giving You Explanations For Anything.
8. Your Partner Always Has An Excuse For Not Spending Time With You.
If your partner constantly gives you one or the other reason to escape meeting or spending time with you, there is surely something fishy going on. He/she probably doesn’t love you any more or already has someone else in his/her life.
9. Your Partner Is Distant – Both Physically And Mentally.
10. He/She Doesn’t Want To Work Or Put Efforts Into Your Relationship.
When it comes to putting efforts into your relationship, it is generally women who prefer talking about the problems. But, if a man is committed towards his relationship, he will put in all his efforts to make it work. If your partner is not interested in resolving the issues between you two no matter how much you try, it is a clear indication that he/she doesn’t love you anymore.
If you notice all these signs in your partner, it’s high time you understand that there is something wrong in your relationship. The first thing you must do in such a situation is to talk to your partner because proper communication can solve half of the problems in life. No, I am not saying that it will fix all the flaws in your relationship or your partner will fall in love madly with you again, but at least you can say you tried. Remember, if you keep ignoring these things, it is only going to worsen the situation. So, talk and try to resolve whatever issues you both might have.
Even after a lot of discussion, if you still feel that there is no room for love and respect in the relationship, the only solution left is to MOVE ON. I know it is going to be very tough, but it’s always good to maintain your respect and dignity and walk out.
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